Thoughts
Random thoughts I’ve had the last few days:
Those single women who seek attention because they are able to survive without child support payment, annoy me. Everyone know no woman would voluntarily support a child without financial help. To post a meme that says “ Let’s see the women who…” is suggesting the lifestyle of their lives is voluntary… which is a lie.
Secondly, well wishes should be just that. Wishes sent to individuals with good and honest intentions. Why on earth would someone treat an individual like crap, then send best wishes once they break up. That’s stupid as sin. Most people have dreams, wishes, and desires all the time. If the individual is with you, use your energy birthing and building those dreams.
Lastly, hurt people will hurt people. If you’re carrying around bitterness and baggage, you’re going to hurt others. If you’re untrusting and jaded, you’re going to hurt others. If you’re closed off and mean and unkind, you’re going to hurt people. This world is ugly enough. We don’t help this world at all by robbing ourselves of healing and emotional connection with one another. Just something to think about.
With Love & Light:
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Prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
Where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
To be consoled as to console;
To be understood as to understand;
To be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen.
So true!
I’m really following in on the second point!
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And every woman is entitled to that payment….
How it’s used is another rant for a different day.
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My ex still owes me $15K from our voluntary agreement, which I will never see. It’s so difficult. Everything costs so much!
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Verbal agreement? Did you go through the courts? I don’t see any woman feeling less than entitled to that payment. Everything does cost so much. Two people create a child, two people should support the child.
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No, we did it ourselves 🙁
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Oh yikes
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