What love isn’t

  • Easy
  • A feeling
  • Getting your way all the time
  • Endless supply of money
  • Selfishness
  • Stagnant
  • Lusting after another
  • Emotional attention given /received from someone other than partner
  • Munipulation
  • Apathetic
  • Withholding
  • Emotionally unattached
  • Lack of willingness to understand
  • Choose not to communicate effectively
  • Found at the bottom of a bottle
  • Doing what you want over what you need to do
  • Comfortable lying
  • Incapable of working through conflict
  • Seeking attention
  • Unaccountable of self
  • Insecure
  • Envious
  • Unforgiving
  • Unmerciful
  • Lacks grace
  • Jealous
  • Untrustworthy
  • I thought I knew what love was, but I didn’t. I didn’t love myself ; therefore, I couldn’t have loved anyone else. I do know, though, that I’m seeking it now. I’m seeking it deep within myself and the best version of it with another. Years and years of a marriage, two individuals had surely learned along the way. I want that.
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    10 comments on “Love”
    1. Hi! I’m at work surfing around your blog from my new apple iphone! Just wanted to say I love reading your blog and look forward to all your posts! Carry on the great work!


    2. oneta hayes says:

      Loving isn’t “doing what you want over what you need to do.” That is so true. It means you cannot be selfish. Love is complicated but commitment is necessary for that long life together. There has been much more good than bad in my long marriage (sixty-five years) but there were plenty of bad during which parting was a temptation. Hope you find long love; it is satisfying when the embers glow. 😀

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      1. Nova says:

        Thanks for your encouraging and sweetest comment💛 I sure would like to believe I find it!


    3. Nova says:

      Amen girl, you know it💗


    4. I love your blog. it gives me courage to live my truth

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      1. Nova says:

        Awe💗 I’m so happy that I help you smile!! Thank you for sharing that with me💙 Welcome 💙 (((biggest hugs)))


    5. simplywendi says:

      so good and so true!

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Nova says:

        Thank you darling 🙏🏼 Life teaches us the real stuff.

        Liked by 1 person

        1. simplywendi says:

          oh yes, it really does…….blessings to you!

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